One more thing, This popped up from my father's mouth:
"Ruth I'm proud of you. You have a great life and run it well. You stand strong of what you believe in. I think you have to write a book. I treasure the values of your life. Tell the youth generation that they don't have to follow the trend to be cool, they don't have to give in their body for the sake of love, tell them that they should know what they exactly want and go get it. Even better i would like to financially&mentally support you to be a motivational speaker"
I had goosebumps right after. it's kinda impossible my dad would humble enough to admit such things.
oh Papah.....You must have been touched by the Lord Almighty :)